Well, do you also have erotic dreams from time to time? You wonder what the last erotic dream means and how to interpret it correctly? Then you are right here!
The pizza delivery man? A woman or the ex? Who did it? And what does what you did to them even mean?
Often our erotic dreams make even porn seem really dull.
Absolutely everyone has had such thoughts while sleeping.
Mega embarrassing the next day but erotically crackling in the morning after getting up. The sheet is sweaty, the pulse races and you wake up quite distraught. Did that really happen now?
And yes, there are erotic dreams we would never talk about in public. Maybe we tell it to our best friend or boyfriend. But that's about it.
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Sometimes we prefer to keep it to ourselves. But it makes curious already or? Erotic dreams have a very special mood that we naturally want to understand.
There are many dream symbols that can have different meanings. We have gone in search of clues.
But let's start from the beginning.
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What are erotic dreams
Let's do some quick definitions so you better understand what an erotic dream even is.
These include not only dreams with tenderness such as kissing or cuddling, but also those with very clear sexual acts. It's about everything that excites us.
By the way, it doesn't have to be that you have sex with a person in your dream. It can also be that an object or an animal plays the main role in your erotic dreams.
If you had an erotic dream with a cat, you don't have to worry. It can simply mean that you love your cat more than anything. Or that you long for more contact with women.
After all, in dream interpretation cats very often represent women, because we often associate them with feminine qualities.
These benefits really bring sleeping naked!
Cuddling, kissing and sex are very clearly erotic dreams. But there are also those that you would not associate with eroticism at first.
So it may be that your dream of lock and key was not so innocent after all. The unlocking of your lock with a key allows for some interpretation.
And what you also need to know is that just because you dream about it, it doesn't mean that what you dream about is what you want.
When dreaming, all inhibitions and fears are eliminated. Often it is precisely the inhibitions that in reality lead to the fact that we women can not let go. In dreamland, they are like erased.
Often erotic dreams can reveal secret desires. Often we experience something in the dream that we do not want to admit to ourselves.
That's how you can tell if you're unhappy in your relationship!
How to interpret your erotic dream
Well, let's go straight to the most important thing: Dream interpretation.
1. you dream about cheating
Your treasure is lying next to you. He sleeps calmly and relaxed. And you? You have just done the unspeakable. You didn't want to cheat on him at all, but that sizzling sensation... You just couldn't resist.
With a queasy feeling or bad conscience you get out of bed and hope that your sweetheart sleeps a little longer. After all, you need to collect your thoughts first.
You wonder if you would cheat on your boyfriend even in reality, if your relationship is coming to an end or if you should break up right away?
Take a deep breath!
Just because you dream about having sex with another man doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend anymore. Or that you would really cheat on him.
In dream interpretation it is assumed that a dream about cheating has to do with unconscious dissatisfaction. And this doesn't even have to refer to your relationship.
Trouble at work, stress with family or a girlfriend also make you have erotic dreams.
2. you dream that your boyfriend has cheated on you
The dream usually starts harmlessly. In the dream you may be at a party together or you may come home late at night.
And what do you have to watch? Your boyfriend is making out with someone else! Or is secretly doing completely different things with her, which you are just finding out.
You are horrified, disappointed and devastated.
Time to wake up!
Quite innocently, he lies next to you. You are completely confused. Has he really cheated on you? Is he planning something like that?
When you dream that your boyfriend is cheating on you, you are unconsciously afraid of losing him.
That is the reason for your jealousy!
3. you have erotic dreams of sex with the ex
Ooops! Well, what happened there? Where does the ex suddenly appear? And what the hell did you just do with him?
Sex with an ex is already really confusing in real life. But when it ends in an erotic dream, it's no less strange.
Especially when you have a new partner with whom you are happy. So what is this now?
But don't worry. Just because you had a few hot minutes with your ex in your dream doesn't mean you want the relationship back. Or that you don't love your new boyfriend.
Very often erotic dreams with an ex-partner are a way of processing. Especially when the breakup was not so long ago.
Has the relationship been over for a long time and you haven't had any contact for ages? It could be that something reminded you of him in the last few days. A place, a dish, a mutual acquaintance.
But even that doesn't have to mean you miss your ex.
If you keep having erotic dreams with your ex, though, you should ask yourself if you don't feel something for him.
These are the stages of heartbreak!
4. you dream about sex with a stranger
The pizza delivery service? The parcel service? Or a sexy guy in a bar?
These erotic dreams occur most often. Think hard, maybe he is not so unknown and you have seen him somewhere before.
If you have erotic dreams with a stranger, then this very often has to do with suppressed feelings. So still undiscovered sides of you.
Where did you have sex? What did you do? Are these things that you would do with your boyfriend?
Talk about your sexual fantasies. Maybe soon you can experience the things from the dream in reality. Unless it was a bit too much even for you.
Ask yourself if you are suppressing any lusts or feelings. Are you hiding a fantasy? Are you really pretending to be who you are?
5. you dream of a threesome
Ohlala another woman or yet another man? It was sooo mega hot?
In fact, this erotic dream may have something to do with your sex life. This doesn't mean that you necessarily want a threesome. But it may be that you are dissatisfied with the current situation.
You are curious about new things! Try something out!
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6. you dream about sex with a woman
You can't imagine kissing a woman? Having sex with a woman either? And yet last night was incredibly hot. You can hardly collect your thoughts so tingly it was.
And now? Are you suddenly a lesbian now?
That's probably the first thing you ask yourself when you wake up. After all, you didn't just make out with her a little bit.
Don't worry about it!
Most women have had exactly this erotic dream more often.
However, it does not have to have anything to do with sexual orientation. Dream interpreters assume that sex with a woman in her sleep is a desire for more tenderness.
The woman from your dream was loving and you were immediately on the same wavelength? That's probably what you're missing in your relationship. Especially in long-term relationships, women like to "look over" in our dreams.
7. you have erotic dreams with forced sex
Rape is a nightmare for every woman. Nevertheless, it happens again and again in dreams. Totally disturbed, you suddenly wake up and are glad that it was only a dream. But what does this erotic dream mean?
Fortunately little with that you really want to be forced to have sex.
According to dream interpretation, it is likely that you feel trapped. So in the trap and that you do not manage to escape.
This may have to do with your relationship. But it can also mean that you are unhappy at work or with your friends.
What relationship phase are you in right now?
8. you dream about sadomaso games
Whip, handcuffs, leather - you have never tried but in your dream they play a central role? There was quite a bit of heat. You whipped someone?
Did you happen to just read or watch 50 Shades of Grey? Maybe you're trying to process that right now.
You don't have to go shopping for latex, restraints and co now. Mostly the erotic dream means that you want more self-confidence. You want to show others where the hammer hangs and appear stronger.
9. you have erotic dreams with celebrities
Celebrities are not spared either, of course. From Matthias Schweighöfer, Andreas Gabalier and Bushido to Joko Winterscheidt and Bastian Schweinsteiger, there's something for everyone.
By the way, these are the top 5 dreamed men of German women.
Celebrities? And then even those we don't find sexy at all? How does that fit together? It may be because we associate celebrities with certain character traits.
We know the latest news from magazines, Instagram and the like, and already we ascribe to the person qualities such as successful, self-confident, conceited, friendly, strong and the like.
When you dream about a celebrity, we often wish for exactly these qualities in ourselves. If we would like to be more self-confident, then suddenly Bushido is in our dream. And that's even if you don't like the music at all.
What research and studies reveal
More and more studies are devoted to the topics of sleep and dreams. Also at the University of Freiburg were 2907 people between the ages of 16 and 92 were surveyed.
83.8 percent said they had ever dreamed about sex.
Incidentally, the number of women with erotic dreams has increased greatly. In 1966, less than 4 percent reported ever having wet dreams. Good for us, right? :)
What erotic dreams singles have
Exciting is what single women dream of. The dating platform Shopaman conducted a survey, which revealed exciting and funny.
How to dream
- 73 percent from a hot night with a stranger
- 46 percent of getting their best friend into bed
- 42 percent of sex with ex
- 17 percent of going to bed with a celebrity
- and even 11 percent of seducing their boss.
And which places are at the top of the list? Forest, beach, car and desert. Other people's homes are also at the top of the wish list.
How often erotic dreams occur
Now you already know that you are not alone with your dreams and fantasies. I dare to say that every adult has felt erotic crackling in dreams. However, there are no exact records about it.
By the way, did you know that men dream erotically more often than women? And even the sleeping position is said to have an impact on our dreams, says a study by Shue Yan University in Hong Kong.
The study says that stomach sleepers are much more likely to have erotic dreams than anyone who sleeps on their side or back.
Our conclusion
Most erotic dreams have little to do with sex in real life. Nevertheless, they can often express unconscious desires. Try to see the dreams in a larger context and don't worry too much about them. Enjoy the little adventures! :)
By the way, you don't have to tell your partner about it. But it can often help so that you can talk about your sexual fantasies. And you can experience new things together. A little experimentation has never hurt a couple!
Sleep well! 😉
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